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Acceptance, 5, 12, 24, 40, 84, 128–131, 136,

137, 140, 148, 150, 156, 176, 188, 228,

256, 265

Achievement, 3, 18, 22–24, 58, 92, 96, 146,

151, 154, 158, 200, 233, 266

Acknowledgement, 3, 11, 112, 205, 207,

220, 282

Adjustment, 18, 37, 77, 92, 118, 127, 176

Affection, 6, 40, 77, 81, 83, 87, 94, 99, 132,

270, 274

Aggression, aggressive, 5–7, 24, 35, 37, 39,

41, 60, 82, 97, 130, 166, 268

Altruism, altruistic, 21, 60, 169, 175

Anger, 5, 6, 10, 21, 42, 58, 84, 110, 112, 117,

121, 264, 266, 271, 280, 283, 288

Anxiety, anxious, 8, 21, 24, 43, 97, 99, 112,

121, 154, 165, 266

Appreciation, 77, 81, 82, 176, 182, 221,

257, 271

Assumptions, 9, 129, 137–138, 186, 191, 193,

202, 204, 217, 223, 224, 252, 257

Attachment, 2, 11, 56–58, 68, 84, 87, 98, 99,

103, 112, 132, 171, 175, 284, 286

Attribute, attributional, 263

Authenticity, authentic, 2–5, 10, 14, 43, 92,

94, 150, 159, 166, 175, 263, 264, 271,

273, 275

Authoritarian, 23, 39, 92, 94, 281

Authoritative, 7, 23, 92, 95, 96, 102, 157

Autonomy, autonomous, 22, 23, 26, 56, 57,

61, 66, 68, 93, 95, 99, 101, 165, 177

Belief, 4, 47, 50, 150, 157, 191, 200, 201,

249–250

Belonging, 2, 6, 24, 36, 40, 60, 95, 101, 137,

139, 146–147, 168, 205, 246, 248, 286

Blame, 4, 84, 115, 116, 121, 147, 280,

285–287

Blessings, 77, 80, 95, 167, 176

Boundaries, 9, 92, 103, 183, 210, 232, 233,

235, 240, 241, 282, 287

Bullying, 2, 7, 24, 28, 36, 37, 94, 129, 153,

154, 286

Business, 166, 168, 170, 171, 173, 174, 177,

198, 234, 281

Character, 24, 164, 170, 262, 265, 269, 270,

274, 275

Choice, 26, 62, 93, 103, 128, 183, 184,

210, 251

Citizens, citizenship, 3, 5, 50, 65, 67, 86

Coaching, 8, 39, 42, 191, 198, 203, 206,

215–217, 219, 221–225

Coercion, coercive, 6, 26, 247, 268, 275, 280

Collective, 57, 63, 147, 221, 247, 253, 272,

273, 280, 287

Comfortable, comfort, 48, 58, 127, 140, 153,

155, 184, 224, 246, 288

Compassion, compassionate, 1, 35–50, 85, 94,

151, 251, 257, 289

Competition, competitive, 2, 5, 38, 133, 178,

183, 217, 256

Compromise, 94, 182, 228, 252, 268, 275

Conﬁ dence, 7, 21, 24, 39, 49, 87, 94, 121, 128,

138, 139, 151, 155, 156, 187, 198, 209,

220, 221, 265, 269

Conﬁ dentiality, 199, 210, 224

Confusion, 97, 114, 121

Connectedness, 22, 63, 64, 145, 147, 218

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Consistency, 63, 95, 188, 211

Consultation, 8, 42, 94, 122, 123, 185–188

Contact, 40, 49, 56, 66, 97, 112, 116–118, 122,

134, 187, 201, 202, 252, 254–256

Contagion, 271

Control, 21, 22, 35, 39, 43, 45, 60, 61, 94, 101,

152, 154, 177, 184, 200, 206, 230, 238,

248, 264, 266, 271, 280, 288

Conversation, 76, 79, 81, 83, 101, 128, 132,

172, 174, 193, 198, 203, 206, 219, 220,

224, 225, 270, 288, 289

Cooperation, 7, 21, 60, 66, 82, 146, 166, 168,

172, 174, 175, 199, 230, 256, 271, 272

Coping, 18, 20, 21, 26, 27, 60, 112, 273, 286

Courage, 12, 28, 36, 170, 224, 225, 257, 264,

265, 269, 274

Creativity, creative, 3, 8, 11, 36, 41, 49, 85,

103, 122, 133, 147, 165, 182, 223, 252,

264, 268, 270–272, 289

Crime, criminal, criminality, 5, 20, 21, 36, 45,

185, 278–281, 289, 290

Crisis, 45, 110, 121, 158, 187, 216, 272

Cultural context, 61, 67, 86, 128, 219

Cultural norms, 5, 57, 60, 61, 148, 284

Curriculum, 26–28, 37, 39, 41, 47, 49, 66, 134,

146, 147, 156, 233, 236

Decisions, decision-making, 2, 12, 23, 41, 64,

93, 96, 101, 109, 113, 152, 157, 168,

182, 184, 198, 201–204, 219, 266,

287, 290

Democracy, democratic, 41, 64, 67, 102,

154, 156

Dialogue, 37, 38, 102, 182, 187, 199, 204,

257, 272, 273

Disadvantage, 35, 39, 207, 208, 231, 232, 251

Discourse, 4, 115, 185

Discrimination, 9, 67, 241, 248, 255

Diversity, 67, 103, 139, 147, 148, 172, 177,

219, 239, 246, 247

Dominant, dominance, 1, 5, 6, 11, 113–115,

228, 233, 275

Dynamic, dynamics, 2, 4, 86, 97, 100, 130,

147, 174, 178, 192, 206–208, 216–221,

224, 228, 236, 239, 240, 254, 261, 263,

264, 268–272, 274, 275

Ecological (systems) theory, 10–11

Economy, economic, economics, economist, 1,

18, 44, 45, 62, 91, 97, 146, 211

Emotional intelligence/literacy, 8, 11–12, 41,

66, 148, 149, 156, 157, 164, 176–177,

215, 224, 225, 229, 231, 234–236,

239, 273

Empathy, empathic, 4–7, 12, 21, 24, 57,

59–60, 76, 84, 96, 98, 99, 131, 151,

157, 168, 188, 189, 218, 221, 246, 251,

254–255, 257, 265, 270, 271, 273, 291

Empower, empowerment, 26, 67, 111, 115,

147, 157, 184, 238, 289

Engagement, 3, 8, 78, 85, 98, 130, 147, 150,

152, 154, 163, 164, 169–171, 175, 178,

185, 203, 224, 236, 237, 250, 253,

268–269, 274, 290

Enjoyment, 23, 36, 78, 79, 128, 146, 171, 216,

224, 274, 283

Equality, 4–5, 13, 46, 50, 83, 197, 217,

256, 257

Ethics, ethical, 4, 5, 36, 44, 47, 48, 150, 183,

199, 204, 208, 224

Ethnicity, 128

Evaluation, 28, 39, 42, 47, 49, 50, 66, 67,

124, 154, 189, 200, 201, 211, 239,

256–257

Excellence, 4, 157, 159, 183, 190

Exclusion, 38, 39, 67, 129, 150, 156, 228,

230, 247

Expectations, 10–11, 18, 38, 57–59, 61, 62,

64, 92, 93, 99–101, 103, 128, 129, 131,

139, 148, 151–153, 156, 181, 184, 188,

204, 205, 210, 262, 265, 274

Facilitation, facilitator, 37, 40, 48, 154, 185,

198, 257, 288–289

Fairness, 5, 21, 37, 60, 172, 177, 211

Family breakdown, 1, 91, 124

Fear, 1, 6, 13, 21, 97, 98, 153, 266, 271, 273,

281, 283

Feedback, 39, 42, 59, 77, 79, 85, 100, 151,

157, 169, 173, 182, 189–193, 199,

202–205, 207, 209, 218, 219, 221,

255, 270

Flexibility, ﬂ exible, 27, 39, 40, 57, 61, 62, 64,

66–68, 85, 94, 95, 97, 103, 157, 182,

252, 254, 279

Flourishing, 80–81, 86, 87

Framework, 41, 45–49, 55, 58, 109,

111–115, 122, 124, 131, 154, 164, 177,

220, 223

Fun, 26, 36, 38, 40, 41, 79, 140, 155

Functioning, 3, 11, 18, 60, 86, 114, 145, 164,

168, 175, 254, 273

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Games, 37, 38, 41–43, 133, 134, 136, 137,

139, 191

Gender, 7, 44–48, 115, 121, 128, 129,

137, 138, 170, 172, 206–207, 217,

228, 271

Goals, 12, 13, 22, 41, 42, 59, 94, 101, 146,

170, 178, 181, 189, 190, 192,

198–200, 202, 210, 217–219, 221,

225, 228, 240, 256, 261, 262, 266,

268, 273

Gratitude, grateful, 3, 77, 79, 82, 83, 85–87,

164, 166, 167, 273, 274

Guidance, 39, 48, 97, 133, 197, 218

Heal, healing, 73, 84, 257, 263, 273, 277, 280,

281, 283, 287

Helplessness, 22, 84, 217, 283, 286

Hierarchy, hierarchical, 6, 37, 42, 114, 130,

147, 165, 207, 217, 219

Home-school, 40, 65, 155–156

Honesty, 86, 182, 250–251, 257, 264

Hope, 28, 50, 87, 157, 187, 193, 215–217,

257, 263, 270, 272, 274, 277, 291

Hostility/ hostile, 58, 92, 93, 100, 122, 246,

263–265, 271

Humanity, 5, 9, 12, 14, 170, 245–247, 251,

252, 255–257, 264, 274

Humour, 20, 22, 28, 36, 48, 79–82, 131, 140,

157, 270

Identity, 57, 101, 102, 137, 146, 246, 247, 256

Imagination, 132, 251

Inclusion / inclusive, 9, 12, 23, 41, 47, 48, 116,

117, 128, 129, 146, 150, 153, 154, 168,

182, 232, 247, 252, 281

Independence, independent, 7, 13, 23, 26, 65,

77, 92, 94, 95, 99–102, 137, 169, 218,

224, 234, 256–257, 274

Indigenous, 5, 9, 204, 229–240, 245, 251, 254,

255, 257, 278

Individualism, individualistic, 168, 217–219,

221, 224

Injustice, 229, 249, 255

Insight, 152, 158, 164, 171, 172, 219, 225,

261, 271, 273

Inspirational, inspire, 157, 216, 218, 270

Institutions, institutional, 46, 163, 169, 178,

204, 208, 209, 211, 227, 228, 230, 231,

280, 291

Integration, 47, 137, 171, 247, 262, 270, 281

Integrity, 85, 252

Intention, 35, 263, 289

Interpersonal, 6–7, 9–11, 20, 25, 35, 44,

45, 57, 58, 94, 103, 130, 157, 164,

203, 207, 208, 263–265, 269, 271,

274, 275

Intimacy, intimate, 7, 8, 24, 73–75, 78–80, 83,

84, 87, 124, 127, 131, 132, 135, 137,

138, 203, 264

Intrapersonal, 11, 94, 185, 263

Justice

restorative justice, 185, 277–283,

287–290

social justice, 4, 211, 229

Kindness, 4, 12, 20, 21, 85, 264, 271

Laughter, 78, 166

Listening, listener, 5, 23, 40, 48, 64, 66, 81,

101, 113, 131, 152, 175, 198, 210,

219, 221, 224, 245, 255, 257, 263,

264, 268

Longevity, 62, 74, 77, 83, 208

Love, 7, 47–49, 75, 76, 81, 85, 87, 95, 98, 118,

122, 151–153, 251

Loyalty, 24, 36, 121, 132, 135–137, 140

Marginalising, marginalisation, 9, 241

Mature, maturity, 6, 94, 101, 102, 153, 262,

267, 274, 275

Meaningful, 3, 19, 22, 38, 85, 86, 95, 123,

151, 202, 233, 236, 255, 274

Media, 1, 11, 41, 50, 91, 176, 210,

234, 248

Mediation, 7, 37, 38, 41, 42, 111, 116–120,

123, 234, 278, 279, 287

Mental health, 4, 5, 19, 23, 28, 36, 74,

116, 118, 127, 146, 158, 186, 188,

227, 287

Mindfulness, 95, 218–221, 273

Mirroring, 199, 246

Mirror neurons, 173

Money, 4, 5, 102, 167, 249, 266

Mood, 19, 82, 97, 157, 165–167, 175

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Moral, morality, 24, 36, 57, 62, 82, 99, 152,

206, 252, 289

Motive, motivation, 4, 6, 8, 20, 41, 50, 60, 63,

79, 92, 149, 151, 155, 167, 168, 170,

175, 198, 219, 255

Narrative / narrative theory, 112–115, 199,

200, 289

Negative emotion, 165, 284, 291

Neuroscience / neurological development, 60,

172–173, 177, 215, 218

Nurture /nurturing, 2, 8, 11, 55, 56, 63–65, 68,

74, 77, 94, 98, 122, 131, 197–211

Openness, 79, 182, 189, 240, 251–252, 265, 289

Opinion, 80, 152, 155, 235

Optimism, optimistic, 2, 12, 19, 21, 22, 28,

140, 146, 152, 157, 164, 166, 167, 274,

286, 289

Option, 123, 174

Parenting style, 23, 92–95, 103

Participation, 48–49, 64, 67, 86, 95, 129, 147,

151–153, 159, 184, 229

Partnership, 7, 47, 48, 64, 84, 85, 111, 156,

181, 185, 186, 189, 197, 229, 235

Passion, 87, 99, 152, 183

Pedagogy, 38, 64, 154

Perception, 18, 219, 224, 234, 248, 249

Performance, 18, 60, 64, 115, 127, 149, 165,

166, 168, 170, 171, 173, 175, 176, 190,

198, 202, 203, 207, 209, 217, 218,

221, 222

Personality, 62, 68, 76, 77, 80, 135,

165, 171

Playground, 37, 39, 41–42, 135, 136, 232

Policy / policy makers, 18, 117, 122,

124, 151, 153, 156, 185, 231, 247,

288, 290

Politics, political, politicians, 1, 4–5, 44, 50,

67, 91, 96, 158, 217–219, 221, 223,

224, 229–236, 245, 248, 250

Positive emotion, 83, 164–167, 171, 174–176,

178, 274

Positivity, 21, 74, 75, 77–86, 174

Prejudice, 228, 246, 248, 250, 254–256

Problem-solving, 27, 38, 59, 139, 268–270,

273, 275, 278

Productive, productivity, 13, 67, 74, 86, 169,

209, 219, 220, 267–269

Pro-social, 7, 12, 41, 59, 60, 63, 65, 66, 166

Protective, 20–28, 39, 40, 55, 115, 151,

269, 286

Racism, racist, 13, 246–248, 250, 251, 283

Reality, 4, 94, 112, 140, 153, 246, 247, 249

Reciprocal, reciprocity, 8, 12, 55, 56, 61–64,

66–68, 78, 83, 128–130, 236, 268

Reconciliation, 151, 240, 265, 288

Reﬂ ection, 128, 182, 187, 193, 199, 201, 204,

251, 253, 255, 275

Rejection, 128, 153, 283

Reliability, reliable, 56, 61–64, 66–68, 97,

127, 182, 234, 263, 265

Religion, 23, 245–249, 252, 254

Repair, 40, 82–84, 158, 184, 265, 271, 272,

275, 277–291

Representation, 5, 68, 230

Responsibility, 10, 13, 22, 25, 40–42, 46, 63,

65, 66, 83, 84, 91, 92, 119, 121, 145,

146, 153, 156, 187, 199, 224, 263, 278,

281, 286–289

Responsiveness, 11, 98–100, 112, 218, 221,

222, 265

Restorative justice, 185, 277–283, 287–290

Rights, 5–7, 35, 46, 150, 156, 158, 184, 230,

231, 267, 281, 288

Roles, 2, 36, 40–41, 48, 85, 86, 96, 101, 102,

153, 178, 183, 201, 202, 206–208, 218,

230, 232, 254, 281

Rules, 57, 60, 65, 96, 102, 131, 153, 183, 210,

231, 284

Security, 24, 26, 57, 92, 95, 98, 99, 116, 127,

131, 205, 284

SEL. See Social and emotional learning (SEL)

Self-regulation, 22, 42, 43, 56, 59, 60, 68

Self-worth, 98, 172, 285

Sensitivity, sensitive, 6, 9, 25, 47, 57, 58, 61,

62, 76, 97, 140, 184, 189, 203, 252,

264, 290

Sexual, 2, 6, 7, 25, 44, 45, 47, 49, 79, 131,

282, 286

Shame, 281–288, 290

Shared meaning, 84–86, 203

Smile, smiling, 9, 13, 26, 82, 98, 152, 155, 173

Social and emotional learning (SEL), 12, 60,

66, 154

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Social capital, 8, 13, 146–147, 149, 155, 156,

158, 175–176

Social competence, 24, 25, 58, 66, 128

Social construction, 60, 229

Social justice, 4, 211, 229

Sociology, sociological, 13, 68, 74, 261, 281

Solution-focus, 2, 8, 12–13, 40, 186,

191–194, 289

Spiritual, 22, 36, 44, 84, 92, 150, 261

Stability, 62, 74, 76, 82, 86, 92, 134, 239

Stakeholder, 155

Stereotype, stereotypical, 128, 205

Stories, 66, 99, 111, 113–115, 124, 199, 216,

220, 232, 253, 254

Stress, 6, 23, 56, 58, 60, 74, 76, 78, 81, 95, 97,

98, 120, 124, 152, 155, 168, 171, 184,

201, 218, 221, 262, 265, 273, 284

Struggle, 59, 156, 229–230, 262, 266, 267,

269, 271, 272, 290

Success, 20, 23, 24, 38, 43, 63, 77, 79, 83, 85,

139, 154, 158, 167, 170, 190, 198, 199,

216, 219, 225, 235, 236, 238, 240, 274,

283, 288

Survival, 6, 81, 164, 166, 271

Symbol, symbolic, 9, 85, 86, 186, 232

Systems, 10, 38, 39, 42, 47, 49, 55, 68, 96,

121, 124, 148, 166, 186, 224, 280

Systems theory, systemic approach, 10–11,

112, 115

Team-building, 203, 210, 218, 222

Tension, 9, 97, 256, 269, 270

Threat, threatening, 6, 45, 80, 101, 168, 247

Tolerance, 9, 147, 151, 246, 257

Transformative, transforming, 200, 203, 217,

224, 229, 239, 240, 288, 290

Transition(s), 74, 110, 130, 137, 139

Trauma, 20, 21, 255, 281, 283, 286,

287, 289

Truth, 112, 115, 117, 246, 249, 250, 257, 270,

283, 288

Vision, 36, 80, 150, 153, 156, 157, 171, 177,

202, 211, 221

Voice, 38, 48, 64, 109, 113, 117–118, 150,

189, 191, 206, 209, 219–221, 278, 280

Warmth, 23, 25, 95, 100, 188, 265

Whole person, whole child, 148, 150–151,

158, 220

Whole school, 27, 28, 36, 145, 146, 149–151,

153, 158

Wisdom, 1, 12, 170, 206, 216, 224, 253, 254,

265, 273, 274